‘Yan ang taong pinakamagaling mag-deny. Madalas grabe mag-inarte. Kung mag selos, sobra! Kung manghuli, tinalo pa ‘yung pulis. Kapag may gustong malaman, tinalo pa ‘yung imbestigador. Pero ‘pag sila inibig mo at minahal mo ng totoo, gagawin ka nilang sentro ng buhay nila at guguho ang mundo nila sa sandaling iwan mo sila at kahit ganyan sila, dapat silang mahalin, igalang at ‘wag sasaktan. Dahil boys, aminin niyo man o hindi sila ‘yung tipo ng taong, hinahanap-hanap niyo at kukumpleto sa buhay niyo.

Wala pa ako sa mood mag-customize ng blog. Eto muna theme ko. haha =))

When you’re in love or you’re in a relationship, does it really have to be approved, liked or loved by the whole family or by your friends? Why do people base the one you choose on what they expect and want? Why does everybody asks “Gwapo ba?”, “Matino ba?”, and “Mayaman ba?” Why can’t they just simply ask “Mahal mo ba?” and be done with it.

A lot of couples nowadays are afraid to show others about their relationship. They don’t want others to find out especially when they know that the one they choose will definitely be discriminated and put down. Even though they love the person, sometimes they’re forced or asked to think about it first. Some are giving opinions and complains that will make you think twice. Even your own family will put them down.

Now you’ll start asking yourself “Why did I choose him anyway?”. The truth is, you should be telling yourself “Why do I care about what they say? I love him, I’m happy, I’m contented and I don’t care about what they’ll say.”

Some people judge the one you love by what they hear about them, by what they see them doing or even by simply looking at them. Everybody has something to say, no matter what happens, no matter where you are, and no matter if you know them or not. A lot of people, say “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” Unfortunately, the saying is usually just said and not done and that’s the problem.

If you say you love someone because of their looks, the way they dress and the way they move, you’re just attracted. If you say you love someone because of the way they treat you, it’s admiration. But if you say you love someone and don’t know why, that’s love. Because love has its own reason that not all of us can understand and feel. Love is a word that people give a lot of meaning yet it’s a feeling no one can really describe and explain.

Don’t be ashamed of who you love. Don’t even be affected by what others will say, even the ones they said. You don’t have to think of other people. You’re in love, happy and contented that’s all that matters. Nobody can stop your happiness and yourself from falling in love. You can’t never hide and be ashamed of what you feel.

Looks are deceiving. Looks fade. It doesn’t mean that if your girlfriend/ boyfriend is not that good-looking, you don’t have the what they call “taste in choosing” or you’re a victim of the saying “Love is blind.” Still, there are things that only you can see from the person you love that nobody can and will ever appreciate and see.

Being with someone is never a priority. It’s an option and a choice. You don’t need to force yourself be with someone especially if you don’t want to. It’s your choice if you want to be with someone when you grow old. It’s also your choice if you want to grow old alone. The need for someone is never a fault. You’re the author of your life and that’s include your love life.

—- I want to witness a love that is selfless, that never sees physical disabilities. Love that is beyond words can explain. Love that is to infinity and beyond.

Arguments and fights, it happens to all of us in a relationship at one point in time. But you must remember when you are in an argument you should know and ask yourself, “why did we even begin this rampage in the first place? Why must we fight once more?” In a healthy relationship there will be arguments and there will be times you just want to leave and give-up. But you have to remember what made you want to be with this person and what made you hang-on for so long. Why risk your relationship over an argument? People tend to always say that they broke up because they started to fight and etc. Well you can’t always expect for things to be happy and perfect. Things happen to people, and things get to them and there emotions, so it’s best not to continue the argument because it just makes everything worse. You have to think what is the point of the argument or fight? The best thing to do when you’re in an argument or fight is to just relax, don’t talk back and don’t try to be right. Even though he/she maybe wrong just go with it because in the end you’d regret trying to prove them wrong. It’s best to say sorry to whatever happens and try to talk it over. This is where you learn that you’re both not perfect and you both has mistakes, but in the end of the day you still love each other and you’ll both still have smile on each others’ face. Arguments and fights can be forgotten and forgiven but losing someone is something you’ll surely regret. So just stay calm, be happy that you have someone to be with. Don’t yell and scream instead ease your voice and get comfortable. Show them that you love them even though you both go through downs. Every relationship has their ups and downs. Don’t risk your relationship. Relationships isn’t about being perfect or having a perfect one. It’s about losing yourself in love and letting go of your insecurities. To grow as a person and find about yourself that you can only discover when you’re with that special person. The best part of being flawed is trying to become better. Not because you strive for perfection but because you strive to see your loved one happy and you’d do everything and anything to make sure that happens.

Most adults view young love as a childish amount of lust for attentions and companies. They might be right, but they’re not stating the fact, it’s just simply an opinion.

Never in my entire life have I seen what two young people can and will do for each other. Like how we stay up all night calling or texting each other until one of us falls asleep. We enjoy their presence and treasure every minute we have with them. We’re young so we usually don’t have a job so what do we do? We go on cheap dates where chips and sodas will be serve. Maybe if we get lucky, we go out to eat at a fancy restaurant, but that isn’t needed. Since we’re quite young, we usually don’t have a car. So what do we do? We forget the distance and walk to their house just to see them. Spend time with each other. What about special days? He would probably present her with foods she love, since we girls love to eat or he could go to the extreme and present her with something no other guy has ever done for her. She would probably save up some money to buy him a shirt or she can plan out an amazing date for the both of them. We take millions of pictures to remember each day we spent with them. What happen when we’re apart? We gaze upon those pictures and reminisce about the old days. We sit there and wonder how lucky we are to have them in our lives, why did they choose us, and not someone else. We miss them when they’re gone and comprehend those earlier arguments, feeling how foolish they were.

I could type all day about this supposedly ’fake love’ we teens share, but that would be like typing a book. Maybe some might be all about lusts, but I can guarantee that some relationships are true. They wouldn’t go the distance if it wasn’t worth the time. I believe in miracles and we’re out here proving you wrong

It just goes to show that through all the dramas, every mistakes, and all the accomplishments, love can always be there. No matter the fights or the disagreements, after looking at the face that makes you light up every day, you become thankful for having that someone in your life. Age is but a number and if love is strong enough, it will divide the path and finds its way. Having to see all the memories stream through the heartbeat of your loved one, hearing all the sweet sound of happiness flow throughout their body, it’s lovely. The bumps, turns, and detours that the relationship surpasses, how amazing would it be to say, “We made it here baby, why stop now?” Never giving up and keeping the relationship strong, it’s worth every minute.

“Alam kong bata pa ako, may gatas pa daw sa labi. Di naman sinasadyang tumibok ang puso ko ng biglaan sa kanya.” -Kejs of Breezy Gurlz

Is it just me or do I really miss home? :(

Its been 2 months and 3 days since I left Philippines, my home. Home, where I was born, raised and grew up. Where you learn to meet others, learn to build friendship and making promises of forever and stuffs like the usual growing kid does. Where you begin to fall in love and wish that it won’t end. Wishing that they’re the one who’ll stand next to you and say “I do” when you both face the altar. Where you plan to build your future. Unfortunately, sometimes we really need to leave the place where you used to be. Leave the people and friends you used to be with. And especially leave the person you love and will always love. Even though I’m with my Mom and sister, it’s still hard being away from the country you’re born to live at. But there are times that you need to leave for you’re own sake.

      I remember the last days and months I’m home. Waking up in the morning to see a great day ahead. Being with my friends and cherishing the moments that will surely be missed and remembered. Having fun with my cousin and his friends at our favorite “tambayan”, Mara Street. Laughing here and there. Teasing each other like cats and dogs. Listens to a song that will make us all sing along to it. Giving comments to almost all the people who passes quietly even to those who are nagging on their way. Being amused watching other people, especially when your crush belongs to that group of people. Can I forget what happens everytime I’m in a bad mood? My cousin and his bestfriend surely won’t. I’ll be sending multiple messages containing “Kuya!”, “Kuya! san ka?”, and “Kuya! ano ginagawa mo?”. No need to question, he knows what’s up when I start doing that. He’ll simply answer “Andito sa mara. punta ka”. I’ll be running to him and say my magic word “icecream”. We’ll be going straight to my favorite convenient store, 7 eleven. I’ll be buying myself a 1 gallon of icecream and I’m back to normal. Either I’m in a good or bad mood doesn’t matter as long as I want to eat. We’ll be on our way back, and I’ll be thinking that another day has ended. Tomorrow’s another day to cherish. Hoping that the day shouldn’t have ended. I miss those days.

     I remember how my “barkada”, which we call ourselves, SMS, have fun together. Even through simple “chit-chat” and get together, we surely enjoy each other. We’ve known each other ever since our highschool life started at our Alma Mater, SNNS. Since then, we became friends and will forever be friends. We may have different personalities, yet this was not a hindrance to our friendship. A group consisting of 11 persons, namely Camille, Jhecelle, Liezle, Lysa, Ivy, Shiella, Angelu, Althea, Caren, Marion and myself. Some left, but still some remained. Yet their departure didn’t ended our friendship. I miss them so much. These are the persons in the group who shared an unforgettable memories with me. Camille, the bubbly and “mother-like” in the group who is always there to cheer you up but has a bad temper when you get off the limits. Jhecelle, or also known as “Ate Jhecelle” , who is the “ate” of the group. The one you can count on when you need a back up. Ivy, the “model of the group” who has a beauty yet still a down to earth person. Shiella, the “baby” of the group ‘cause she depends on us almost too much but as I say, she’s a baby, a sweet person you can rely on. Lysa, the “dancer” of the group, one of my bestfriend, a girl who is frank and tells you everything. Here’s the “drama queen” of our group, Liezle, my bestfriend, a non-stop girl who keeps on talking, a day-dreamer, and a kind-hearted person. She is one of the people who brings me up when I’m down. A person who will never regret helping you when you needed it badly. Our “tambayan”, JJT, also known as “lugawan” is one place we love aside from the mess halls and benches at school. This place witness some of our special occasions that we celebrated that made this place memorable and significant. How I love to be with my friends now and laughing our hearts out till it’s time to go home and be ready for another day together.

    Shiena, my friend who has always been there for me and tries to understand me though I honestly know she hasn’t experience most of my problem. I thank her for being there. I truly appreciate her presence especially now that I’m away. I miss you too.

    Sarmiento, a place where I spent my highschool life, where I met people who judge by what they see, where I witness almost everything, where I stayed before leaving and where I written my love story. This place really is a memorable place. Though this is where I experienced so much pain and problems, I still have happy memories here. I thought its not a good place at first, yet gettiing the hang of it, its not bad after all. I met people who I thought a “not a friend” type but I let my expectation break down and now I know some of them and I’m glad. I can’t even believe that I miss them too. This s also a place where I had an unforgettable love story.

     I remember Jaymarck, once who was my bestfriend who I fell in love with. Our love story became a very complicated one, but still we tried. I remember how we go out together and people we met will just came to us and ask “magkapatid kayo? magkamukha kasi kayo e” , we just answer through smiles and giggles. How we go to each other’s house and just stay for some minute. I also remember how his mother, Ate Vergie, keeps telling me that his son is really a headache that’s why I should bare with him sometimes. She treated me as her own and I will never regret I met her. I miss Jaymarck though. I know its hard for us to be like before, bestfriends, but I know he’ll always be my bestfriend. I admit that the saying “Friends can be lovers but lovers can’t be friends.” is true for this situation, yet I know that in time, we’ll be back to being friends and will just laugh reminiscing the memories we shared.

     As I leave home, especially Sarmiento, I left a person who has my heart. Jerson, the person I love and now is my boyfriend. Though we still have communication through texts, calls and social networks, I really miss him so much. The moments we spent together, the random texts and calls, the laughs we shared, the tears we shed, and all the things we used to do. I can’t barely take it being away from him but I have to. I explained everything to him why we’re apart and fortunately, he understands me. Its funny to hear him saying that things you can’t believe a guy would tell you. But still a sweet thing for me. Being in a long distance relationship with him is really a hard thing to do. I tend to miss him badly everyday. Still I trust him and love him that’s why I’m looking forward to take the risk in our relationship. I just know the day will come, and I’ll be back home and will feel his hugs again.

     Maybe I really miss home. 3, 4 or 5 years away from home? Maybe I’ll get used to it. But I know deep inside that I can’t hide the feeling of missing home. I know that there are things that I can’t find here and will only find it home. No matter what happens, no matter where life brings me, I’ll always be coming back to where I started, where I belong.

*Biglang maiinis

*Magagalit sa pinaka-maliit na dahilan

*Mapikon sa walang kwentang bagay

*Umiyak dahil nasaktan

*Magselos ng hindi alam ang dahilan

*Malungkot dahil miss mo na siya

*Magsaya dahil magkasama kayo

*Kiligin sa mga calls and texts na sweet

*Managinip ng weird

*Mag-isip ng imposible

*Matulala

*Magsalita ng mag-isa

At higit sa lahat,

*Mabaliw

1. Change his facebook status to In a Relationship/ Married

2. Ask me to watch chick flick/ romantic movies.

3. Buy me a necklace or a matching ring.

4. Hold my hand tightly when we’re walking out.

5. Hug me from the back.

6. Ask me to go to church with his family.

7. Bring me to a fancy restaurant to have dinner even for once.

8. Write a song only for me.

9. Stop me from sleeping just so he could talk to me a little more.

10. Put my picture as his phone’s wallpaper.

11. Ask me to hang out with his friends.

12. Kiss me hard.

13. Put his arms around my waist.

14. Help me with my homework or do my projects.

15. Compliment my new dress/ shirt/ outfit.

16. Get to know my friends.

17. Tell me to take care and give me a goodbye kiss.

18. Look into my eyes and smile like he’d seen the prettiest girl.

19. Lean on my shoulder and sleep.

20. And most especially, tell me “i love you” with all of his heart and show it in his own special way.